If you're a musician who has learned their craft through the long hours of practice, playing along to favourite songs, etc. striving to improve and always be better, you're getting a good grasp of about 75% of the tools you'll need. What is that other 25%? Lots of people might answer “hustle and work ethic” and they wouldn't be wrong. In my experience, something that has served me very well is the ability to hear the ENTIRE room. See the ENTIRE picture. Playing a song in a room with other musicians, the ability to hear where you and your instrument should “sit” within the group is crucial.
Every player has played with others who are listening to mostly themselves. They might be the loudest player in the room, causing a chain reaction of other players turning up to achieve balance, or to hear mostly themselves also. With experience, it's easy to tell these players. When you're the loudest in the room, dynamics and detail go out the window. It's a struggle between instruments and voices. One player like this can wreck the sound of a collective group.
Playing with others in a room is a lot like mixing music in the studio; different parts step forward in a mix, and other parts back off to allow that. There is balance, but also movement to feature different elements at different times. This should happen in an ensemble as well. When one player is “featured” (a guitar solo or maybe a big keyboard riff, etc) other players in the same tonal register should make adjustments: play a little less. Back off a bit. Simplify your part so it doesn't distract. If you're a lead player, stay out of the way of the singer - perhaps your lead is played between vocal lines.
A group of players who are mindful of this will make the music sound effortless and balanced, with no need to steamroll everyone in the room with loudness. Give it consideration the next time you're jamming with a band or playing a live show. It can often make the difference between sounding great or struggling!


What a year, huh? Maybe you were fine. Maybe you lost someone close. Maybe you lost your job, or at least had to adapt to a new difficult situation. For me, work dried up but I still had some shows to write for, with no guarantees my music would be used. Everything was still cool - bills paid, family healthy, much to be thankful for, and not much to complain about. I work in an isolated environment writing music and mixing all day, nearly every day so lockdowns and isolation weren't a big deal... on the surface.


